說真話確實有風險，兩人相處久了難免有時突然“沒有感覺”，有時卻又牽腸掛肚，百般思念，所以問的時刻若正巧是感覺消失的時間點，那麼尷尬也是難免。然而如果兩個人經常內心分享、共同成長，那麼就不怕把真話拿出來討論。情侶間最需要拿出來討論的真話，建議如下：
你對我的價值觀有什麼不同的看法？
你對我們的性愛關係有什麼感受？
你對我的工作態度有什麼建議？
你對我的家人有什麼地方想多了解？
你覺得我們的關係夠親密嗎？
你認為我們的溝通夠清楚嗎？
你需要獨處的時刻嗎？
你覺得我們足夠了解彼此嗎？
你曾經想過要和我分手嗎？
真愛是不害怕說真話；說真話也不害怕面對分手的可能。其實最恐懼碰觸的真心話反而是堅定愛情的基石，相愛的情侶豈可放棄如此共同成長的好機會？ （星洲日報／副刊／成長／兩性EQ教室‧特約：吳娟瑜．2006/04/24）
4/27/2006
Don't do anything that will make you feel regret
吵架之後，如果對方打你手機，一定要接！
吵架之後，如果對方打你手機，一定要接！！！ 有那麼一對情侶。女孩很漂亮，非常善解人意，偶爾時不時出些壞點子耍耍男孩。男孩很聰明，也很懂事，最主要的一點，幽默感很強，總能在兩個人相處中找到可以逗女孩發笑的方式。女孩很喜歡男孩這種樂天派的心情。
他們一直相處不錯，女孩對男孩的感覺，淡淡的，說男孩像自己的親人。 男孩對女孩愛甚深，非常非常在乎她。所以每當吵架的時候，男孩都會說是自己不好，自己的錯。即使有時候真的不怪他的時候，他也這麼說。他不想讓女孩生氣。
就這樣過了5年，男孩仍然非常愛女孩，像當初一樣。
有一個週末，女孩出門辦事，男孩本來打算去找女孩，但是一聽說她有事，就打消了這個念頭。他在家裡呆了一天，他沒有聯繫女孩，他覺得女孩一直在忙，自己不好去打擾他。 誰知女孩在忙的時候，還想著男孩，可是一天沒有接到男孩的消息，她很生氣。
晚上回家後，發了條信息給男孩，話說得很重，甚至提到了分手。當時是晚上12點。 男孩心急如焚，打女孩手機，連續打了3次，都給掛斷了。打家裡電話沒人接，猜想是女孩把電話線拔了。男孩抓起衣服就出門了，他要去女孩家。當時是12點25。
女孩在12點40的時候又接到了男孩的電話，從手機打來的，她又給掛斷了。 一夜無話。男孩沒有再給女孩打電話。
第二天，女孩接到男孩母親的電話，電話那邊聲淚俱下。男孩昨晚出了車禍。警方說是車速過快導致剎車不急，撞到了一輛壞在半路的大貨車。救護車到的時候，人已經不行了。
女孩心痛到哭不出來，可是再後悔也沒有用了。她只能從點滴的回憶中來懷念男孩帶給她的歡樂和幸福。
女孩強忍悲痛來到了事故車停車場，她想看看男孩呆過的最後的地方。車已經撞得完全不成樣子。方向盤上，儀表盤上，還沾有男孩的血跡。 男孩的母親把男孩當時身上的遺物給了女孩，錢包，手錶，還有那部沾滿了男孩鮮血的手機。
女孩翻開錢包，裡面有她的照片，血漬浸透了大半張。 當女孩拿起男孩的手錶的時候，赫然發現，手錶的指針停在12點35分附近。 女孩瞬間明白了，男孩在出事後還用最後一絲力氣給她打電話，而她自己卻因為還在堵氣沒有接。
男孩再也沒有力氣去撥第2遍電話了，他帶著對女孩的無限眷戀和內疚走了。 女孩永遠不知道，男孩想和她說的最後一句話是什麼。女孩也明白，不會再有人會比這個男孩，更愛她了！
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吵架之後，如果對方打你手機，一定要接！！！ 有那麼一對情侶。女孩很漂亮，非常善解人意，偶爾時不時出些壞點子耍耍男孩。男孩很聰明，也很懂事，最主要的一點，幽默感很強，總能在兩個人相處中找到可以逗女孩發笑的方式。女孩很喜歡男孩這種樂天派的心情。
他們一直相處不錯，女孩對男孩的感覺，淡淡的，說男孩像自己的親人。 男孩對女孩愛甚深，非常非常在乎她。所以每當吵架的時候，男孩都會說是自己不好，自己的錯。即使有時候真的不怪他的時候，他也這麼說。他不想讓女孩生氣。
就這樣過了5年，男孩仍然非常愛女孩，像當初一樣。
有一個週末，女孩出門辦事，男孩本來打算去找女孩，但是一聽說她有事，就打消了這個念頭。他在家裡呆了一天，他沒有聯繫女孩，他覺得女孩一直在忙，自己不好去打擾他。 誰知女孩在忙的時候，還想著男孩，可是一天沒有接到男孩的消息，她很生氣。
晚上回家後，發了條信息給男孩，話說得很重，甚至提到了分手。當時是晚上12點。 男孩心急如焚，打女孩手機，連續打了3次，都給掛斷了。打家裡電話沒人接，猜想是女孩把電話線拔了。男孩抓起衣服就出門了，他要去女孩家。當時是12點25。
女孩在12點40的時候又接到了男孩的電話，從手機打來的，她又給掛斷了。 一夜無話。男孩沒有再給女孩打電話。
第二天，女孩接到男孩母親的電話，電話那邊聲淚俱下。男孩昨晚出了車禍。警方說是車速過快導致剎車不急，撞到了一輛壞在半路的大貨車。救護車到的時候，人已經不行了。
女孩心痛到哭不出來，可是再後悔也沒有用了。她只能從點滴的回憶中來懷念男孩帶給她的歡樂和幸福。
女孩強忍悲痛來到了事故車停車場，她想看看男孩呆過的最後的地方。車已經撞得完全不成樣子。方向盤上，儀表盤上，還沾有男孩的血跡。 男孩的母親把男孩當時身上的遺物給了女孩，錢包，手錶，還有那部沾滿了男孩鮮血的手機。
女孩翻開錢包，裡面有她的照片，血漬浸透了大半張。 當女孩拿起男孩的手錶的時候，赫然發現，手錶的指針停在12點35分附近。 女孩瞬間明白了，男孩在出事後還用最後一絲力氣給她打電話，而她自己卻因為還在堵氣沒有接。
男孩再也沒有力氣去撥第2遍電話了，他帶著對女孩的無限眷戀和內疚走了。 女孩永遠不知道，男孩想和她說的最後一句話是什麼。女孩也明白，不會再有人會比這個男孩，更愛她了！
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4/26/2006
How to stop myself from hating samebody?
Really feel headache with the GHOST in my house. Really feel sick with the GHOST.....with her BIG size, I just can't ignore her existance.......Flying around in my house, dirty my kitchen, use my things, use my toilet......the worst thing is NEVER CLEAN UP!!!!
For this GHOST, Clean up=mop the place where you can see, where no other things blocking!!!! How to stop myself from hating her? Really hard to do so......This GHOST very GENG 1, studying in UUM in Accounting course but still can spend every weekend her from Wednesday till Saturday, sometimes whole week.....How to study ler?
Holiday for 1 month, 3 weeks FLYING in my house. Where is her family? IPOH lor, but never go back 1, like her BF. I still can accept lar, her BF working here, family got prob then don't go back always lar. But this GHOST's Family very good 1, but she jsut hang up here and there, staying alone in my house while all of us go to work......
Really can't stand her. BIG SIZE already still always wear Spaghetti and BABY T in my house, then all the LEMAK and DAGING fly out everywhere. You know what, in my house, have 2 guys ler, i don't mind if you wear it and do whatever she want in the room lar, but don't wear it and then post in front of my mirror then comb hair in the living room lar!!! You are so poor mer? No money to buy more cloths, no money to buy a mirror and put it in your own room ar? If you buy a mirror and put it in your own room, I don't care whether you wear anything. Really feel like want to VOMIT liao.
Ai, anyway, i supposed to ask for a way to help me to forgive her....Ended up COMPLAINING. Sorry God, I shouldn't...........
Man are hard to please
Men Are Hard To Please 男人很难取悦!!
The problems with GUYS: 男人的问题是：
If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him; 如果妳对他好，他说妳爱上他了．
If u Don't, he says u are PROUD. 对他不好，他说妳骄傲．
If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him; 如果妳穿得很漂亮，他说你企图诱惑他．If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG. 如果不，他说妳是乡下来的
If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN; 如果妳跟他理论，他说妳固执
If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS. 如果妳沉默，他说妳没大脑！
If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE; 如果妳比他聪明，他说那是小聪明If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT. 如果他比你聪明，他就是有智慧！
If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u; 如果妳不爱他，他想拥有妳
If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?) 如果妳爱他，他试着离开妳．
If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him; 如果妳不跟他做爱，他说妳不爱他
If u do!! he says u are CHEAP. 如果跟他做，他说你是贱货！
If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME; 如果妳告诉他妳的问题，他说妳麻烦
If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him. 如果不，他说妳不信任他
If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him; 如果妳骂他，妳好象他奶妈
If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u. 如果他骂妳，是表示他“关心”妳
If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED; 如果妳没有守承诺，妳就是不可信的人
If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so. 如果他不守承诺，他是迫不得已的
If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl; 如果妳吸烟，妳是坏女孩
If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN. 如果他吸烟，他是绅士
If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK; 如果妳考试成绩好，他说是运气
If he does WELL, it's BRAINS. 如果他考得好，他说是实力！
If u HURT him, u are CRUEL; 如果妳伤害了他，表示妳很残忍
If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!! 如果他伤害了妳，表示妳太敏感而且太难取悦！
SO HARD TO PLEASE!!!!!If u send this to guys, they will swear that it's not true....... 如果你寄这封信给男生，他们会发誓以上是不正确的．．
but if u don't they say u are selfish..... 如果你不寄给他们，他们说妳自私．....．
The problems with GUYS: 男人的问题是：
If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him; 如果妳对他好，他说妳爱上他了．
If u Don't, he says u are PROUD. 对他不好，他说妳骄傲．
If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him; 如果妳穿得很漂亮，他说你企图诱惑他．If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG. 如果不，他说妳是乡下来的
If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN; 如果妳跟他理论，他说妳固执
If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS. 如果妳沉默，他说妳没大脑！
If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE; 如果妳比他聪明，他说那是小聪明If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT. 如果他比你聪明，他就是有智慧！
If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u; 如果妳不爱他，他想拥有妳
If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?) 如果妳爱他，他试着离开妳．
If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him; 如果妳不跟他做爱，他说妳不爱他
If u do!! he says u are CHEAP. 如果跟他做，他说你是贱货！
If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME; 如果妳告诉他妳的问题，他说妳麻烦
If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him. 如果不，他说妳不信任他
If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him; 如果妳骂他，妳好象他奶妈
If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u. 如果他骂妳，是表示他“关心”妳
If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED; 如果妳没有守承诺，妳就是不可信的人
If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so. 如果他不守承诺，他是迫不得已的
If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl; 如果妳吸烟，妳是坏女孩
If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN. 如果他吸烟，他是绅士
If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK; 如果妳考试成绩好，他说是运气
If he does WELL, it's BRAINS. 如果他考得好，他说是实力！
If u HURT him, u are CRUEL; 如果妳伤害了他，表示妳很残忍
If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!! 如果他伤害了妳，表示妳太敏感而且太难取悦！
SO HARD TO PLEASE!!!!!If u send this to guys, they will swear that it's not true....... 如果你寄这封信给男生，他们会发誓以上是不正确的．．
but if u don't they say u are selfish..... 如果你不寄给他们，他们说妳自私．....．
I love my job
Something we need to remind ourselves of everyday... ..... I love my job ..... I love my job ..... I love my job ..... I love my job ..... I love my job ..... I love my job ..... I love my job ..... I love my job ..... I love my job .....I love my job ..... I love my job .....I love my job .....I love my job .....I love my job .....I love my job ..... I love my job .....I love my job .....I love my job .....I love my job .....I ! love my job .....I love my job ..... . .love my job
4/25/2006
Boss.........and Me
My Boss & ME
When I take a long time. I am slow.
When my boss takes long time He is thorough.
When I don't do it I am lazy.
When my boss doesn't do it He is too busy.
When I do something without being told I am trying to be smart.
When my boss does the same That is initiative.
When I please my boss I am apple - polishing
When my boss please his boss He's co-operating.
When I do well, my boss never remembers
When I do wrong, he never forgets
When I take a long time. I am slow.
When my boss takes long time He is thorough.
When I don't do it I am lazy.
When my boss doesn't do it He is too busy.
When I do something without being told I am trying to be smart.
When my boss does the same That is initiative.
When I please my boss I am apple - polishing
When my boss please his boss He's co-operating.
When I do well, my boss never remembers
When I do wrong, he never forgets
OP System+ IT Support needed
Dear IT Support,
Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a slow down in the overall performance, particularly in the flower and jewelry applications that had operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.
In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5, but installed undesirable programs such as Formula One 5.0, NBA 3.0, Premier League, Counter-Strike and World Cup 2.0. And now Conversation 8.0 no longer runs and House Cleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. I've tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail. What can I do?
Signed,
Desperate
Reply:
Dear Desperate,
First keep in mind: Boyfriend 5.0 is an entertainment package, while Husband 1.0 is an operating system. Try entering the command C:\ I> >THOUGHT YOU LOVED ME and download Tears 6.2 to install Guilt 3.0.
If all works as designed, Husband 1.0 should then automatically run the applications Jewellery 2.0 and Flowers 3.5. But remember, over use can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Grumpy Silence 2.5, Happy Hour 7.0 or Late Night Out 6.1. And Late Night 6.1 is a very bad program that will create SnoringLoudly.wav files.
Whatever you do, DO NOT install Mother-in- Law 1.0 or reinstall another Boyfriend program. These are not supported applications and will crash Husband 1.0.
In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have a limited memory and cannot learn new applications quickly. You might consider additional software to improve memory and performance. I personally recommend Hot Food 3.0 and Lingerie 6.9.
Good Luck,IT Support
Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a slow down in the overall performance, particularly in the flower and jewelry applications that had operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.
In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5, but installed undesirable programs such as Formula One 5.0, NBA 3.0, Premier League, Counter-Strike and World Cup 2.0. And now Conversation 8.0 no longer runs and House Cleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. I've tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail. What can I do?
Signed,
Desperate
Reply:
Dear Desperate,
First keep in mind: Boyfriend 5.0 is an entertainment package, while Husband 1.0 is an operating system. Try entering the command C:\ I> >THOUGHT YOU LOVED ME and download Tears 6.2 to install Guilt 3.0.
If all works as designed, Husband 1.0 should then automatically run the applications Jewellery 2.0 and Flowers 3.5. But remember, over use can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Grumpy Silence 2.5, Happy Hour 7.0 or Late Night Out 6.1. And Late Night 6.1 is a very bad program that will create SnoringLoudly.wav files.
Whatever you do, DO NOT install Mother-in- Law 1.0 or reinstall another Boyfriend program. These are not supported applications and will crash Husband 1.0.
In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have a limited memory and cannot learn new applications quickly. You might consider additional software to improve memory and performance. I personally recommend Hot Food 3.0 and Lingerie 6.9.
Good Luck,IT Support
4/20/2006
Give Me the Strength
I need Strength.........Help me...........GOD.......I surrender my life in youur hand, make it your testimony....Help me to control my anger, temper................Show me the right way, help me to glorify your name................
In Jesus name I pray, AMEN
In Jesus name I pray, AMEN
4/14/2006
Thanks
Thanks for all of my friends who really concern and help me along this way. It's never good enough to say thank you through words but I don't know what else can I do :).
Sweet sweet friends : Kok Lean, Aik Swee, Patrick.........etc, I'm not sure whether you will like it when I disclose your name but don't be angry, k? Just to say thanks you.
Sweet sweet friends : Kok Lean, Aik Swee, Patrick.........etc, I'm not sure whether you will like it when I disclose your name but don't be angry, k? Just to say thanks you.
Happy Chinese New Year
This was the 4th days of Chinese New Year. It's has been 5 years since form 5.Thanks everybody!!!
3/24/2006
2/22/2006
Am I doing things right?
I think I'm very calculative. When my boss want me to work extra harder which is existing my normal workload, I'll do, but for sure she has to pay for it. I don't feel that is too much right? We should be paid accordingly to what we do, right?
I won't get any OT claim if I stay back after my normal office hour. I don't mind about that, it can consider as my fault because I'm not efficient enough to finish my work in time. So, I don't think is too much if I wish to claim my OT when they want me to work on Saturday and Sunday. I don't think is too much for me to claim it according to my daily salary, right? When your company required you to travel to other location to wok, you should have your mileage claim right? So, is not my fault to claim it, right?
Come on, I don't believe that you don't think in this way. All of the employee think like this, right? If I'm at the managerial level which I earn more then RM 3000, then I'm ok if you said I shouldn't claim for it, but I'm not earning that much, right? Somemore my boss is one of the shareholder and she will get the profit sharing at the end of the quarter, so, what's my fault if I ask for a claim? Do you think it'll cost her more then RM 100? I think the worst it goes will be around RM 50.
Don't pretend like you don't care about it if you really care. My colleague pretend like she don't care about it and is my fault because I ask for it. Please, in fact, she is the one who also care about it. We did discuss about the case but she never said that it's not good to be so calculative. When it goes to the real point, she start to pretend like she know nothing and why should I ask for it. I think I'm stupid in this sense.I'm the one who become the bad guy, I'm the one who become the bad guy but when I get, she get.
Should I pretend like I do everything for company good, I don't care about my own benefit? Should I pretend like I don't care about my own feeling but company and bosses benefit? Should I pretend like I will live and die together with the company no matter what happened? Should I act like I fall in love with this company and everything I do is to help my bosses to earn money?
I should, right? Then I can bluff all of my bosses, then I can climb and move smoother in my career, right? I should, so that my bosses can earn more and more, then give some to me, right? I should, so that I won't be threaten and critic like hell, right?
2/09/2006
What's happening?
Don't know what happened? My life doesn't looks good and smooth since i started to work...I'm in a staffing company where i can help all my friends to get their dream job and all of their salary are higher then mind.... I doesn't mind if they get the higher pay if i get at lease the basic salary that a degree holder should have, the problem is, NO, i'm not getting the actual salary that a degree holder should get.
I can't claim OT, they want me to work on weekends for the career fair also i can get only RM 5 per hour and not my daily salary. I really can't see the point why i have to stay in the company. I really don't understand myself now. I keep on complaining about this company but still don't dare to take up the risk and try a new job.
As a young adult, i think my main concern is my family. i have my own commitment and i can't run off from the responsibility. I think may be is my own mindset who put myself in this situation. I really don't know what else can i do.
I can't claim OT, they want me to work on weekends for the career fair also i can get only RM 5 per hour and not my daily salary. I really can't see the point why i have to stay in the company. I really don't understand myself now. I keep on complaining about this company but still don't dare to take up the risk and try a new job.
As a young adult, i think my main concern is my family. i have my own commitment and i can't run off from the responsibility. I think may be is my own mindset who put myself in this situation. I really don't know what else can i do.
2/02/2006
ThE fIrSt DaY afTer ChInEsE NeW yEaR aLwAyS wIlL Be ThE lAzIeST dAy To WoRk, We HaVe No ChOiCe WhEn We ArE at The JuNiOr LeVel.
HaHa, the 1st pOst AfTer ChiNeSe NeW yEaR dOesn't SoUnds GoOd, right? :) HaIyA, wE NeEds TiMe To ReCoVer From the SaDnEsS right?HuMan BeInGs AlSo wIll HaVe Up AnD dOwN...So FoRgive Me, K?
HoW wAs yOuR nEw YeAr HoLiDaY? BoRed? InTeResTing? WaNt to sHare It out? ShArE it wItH Me!! :)
1/27/2006
A bad news before Chinese New Year...
Today, a bad news come again....6 suspects have been released.....Without any evidence. We can't do anything. None of us know what is happening and what will happen.
We don't know where are the real muderer/s. We don't know what are they doing and we don't know what will they do again. All ladies have to be careful start from now....We don't know what can happen....
Pray hard that all of us will have a safe and happy Chinese New Year, pray that all of us will be safe forever and ever too....Only GOD can protect us now. Now we must really take care of ourselves. This coming year will be better, I really hope so.
We don't know where are the real muderer/s. We don't know what are they doing and we don't know what will they do again. All ladies have to be careful start from now....We don't know what can happen....
Pray hard that all of us will have a safe and happy Chinese New Year, pray that all of us will be safe forever and ever too....Only GOD can protect us now. Now we must really take care of ourselves. This coming year will be better, I really hope so.
1/26/2006
Chinese New Year
Chinese New Year coming very soon after new year 2006. At this point of time, before the Chinese New Year, I don't really know what's my future plan and what should i do. Everything seems like in a mess now.
Looked for a house before this, failed. Looking for a job now, still in process. Friend pass away, still recovering from the sadness. That's y i said the starting is not really good for the year of 2006.
Emm...but new year coming, good news will follow up....I take action and finally attended the 1st interview (although a lot of company called but i never attended any). Although we still haven't move out but at lease we decided to stay at the same place. My fiend's bf stronger then what i thought and he recovered so I'm recovering too.
I know, we are going to start our new life and a better life after this new year. It's a year of mine. It's the year of prosperity and it's the year of blessing. I know our god will bless us with all we need and more then all we need...
I know good things will follow up after Chinese new year....Let's celebrate it...
Looked for a house before this, failed. Looking for a job now, still in process. Friend pass away, still recovering from the sadness. That's y i said the starting is not really good for the year of 2006.
Emm...but new year coming, good news will follow up....I take action and finally attended the 1st interview (although a lot of company called but i never attended any). Although we still haven't move out but at lease we decided to stay at the same place. My fiend's bf stronger then what i thought and he recovered so I'm recovering too.
I know, we are going to start our new life and a better life after this new year. It's a year of mine. It's the year of prosperity and it's the year of blessing. I know our god will bless us with all we need and more then all we need...
I know good things will follow up after Chinese new year....Let's celebrate it...
1/17/2006
GUYS!!!!
ALL GUYS,
Is time for you to prove yourself.....When all this cases keep on happening, is time for you to stand out and protect the girls beside you. Have you think of this question? If one of the ladies (colleagues, friends,family members) beside you become the victim? What can you do at that point of time?
NOTHING!!! Nothing you can do anymore when they are the victim. So, please, please....Protect them, don't ever let them to face this trauma...May be you can protect the ladies 24 hours, at lease make sure that she will not be the victim when you are with her. Don't dare to bring her to dangerous place just because you feel that the things won't happen.
Please, help all the ladies to look around. Be alert, no matter how, just tell her if you feel something is wrong then move to safer place. Help all the ladies, don't let them to be the next victim. You won't know what an animal think....Those rapists are the animals....
Lastly, if you feel that you really can't do much to help. At lease, control your mind. Don't let your mind to be out of control and turn you into an animal. Learn how to respect a lady. If you have a friend with this kind of bad habits to disturb girls, ask him to stop it, control it while you can.
GUYS, may be you will feel offended, sorry, I doesn't mean to, I just want to help. I don't want any of us feel the sadness again...PLEASE.
Is time for you to prove yourself.....When all this cases keep on happening, is time for you to stand out and protect the girls beside you. Have you think of this question? If one of the ladies (colleagues, friends,family members) beside you become the victim? What can you do at that point of time?
NOTHING!!! Nothing you can do anymore when they are the victim. So, please, please....Protect them, don't ever let them to face this trauma...May be you can protect the ladies 24 hours, at lease make sure that she will not be the victim when you are with her. Don't dare to bring her to dangerous place just because you feel that the things won't happen.
Please, help all the ladies to look around. Be alert, no matter how, just tell her if you feel something is wrong then move to safer place. Help all the ladies, don't let them to be the next victim. You won't know what an animal think....Those rapists are the animals....
Lastly, if you feel that you really can't do much to help. At lease, control your mind. Don't let your mind to be out of control and turn you into an animal. Learn how to respect a lady. If you have a friend with this kind of bad habits to disturb girls, ask him to stop it, control it while you can.
GUYS, may be you will feel offended, sorry, I doesn't mean to, I just want to help. I don't want any of us feel the sadness again...PLEASE.
Take care GIRLS
Dear All Girls,
Please take care of yourself, i don't dare to stand for this kind of news any more. All of us have to be aware, don't let these cases keep on repeating. Those RAPIST are useless animal. You don't know what will they do.
When you are their target, they will really do all those terrible thing on you. You need more energy to fight them during that time where we normally don't have the tie and energy. SO, The only way to get away from themselves is lower the chances to become their target and victim.
Please, pray for GOD protection. Pray to be more alert and aware with the surrounding. Be more careful....NEVER GIVE ANY CHANCE TO THE RAPIST!!!
Please take care of yourself, i don't dare to stand for this kind of news any more. All of us have to be aware, don't let these cases keep on repeating. Those RAPIST are useless animal. You don't know what will they do.
When you are their target, they will really do all those terrible thing on you. You need more energy to fight them during that time where we normally don't have the tie and energy. SO, The only way to get away from themselves is lower the chances to become their target and victim.
Please, pray for GOD protection. Pray to be more alert and aware with the surrounding. Be more careful....NEVER GIVE ANY CHANCE TO THE RAPIST!!!
To the RAPIST and the MURDERER
The Year of 2006 doesn't starts good. Especially when we found out one of our old friend being raped and killed in the 1st month of the year...............
Why?? Why this thing happened?? Why YOU must be a RAPIST and MURDERER?? Why when a girl is pretty she has to be raped?? Why when she was raped she has to be killed?? Why?? Why can't she spend her Chinese New Year together with her family, boy friend and all her love one??? Why can you spend your time with your family while her family struggle for her death?? Why can't you just SUICIDE when you found out you can't control yourself???
Why?? Why must You spoiled the happiness of her family?? Why must you spoiled her life as a smiley face in her family?? Why must you spoiled her dream to get married with her boyfriend in years time?? Why must you spoiled our dream to attend her wedding in the future?? WHY??
I don't know whether you can read or whether you will read or may be you don't even know how to read but I want to let you know that you won't ever to have your chance to enjoy the happiness that everybody have in this world anymore. You will be the shame of your family, your whole family, your friends....all of the person in the world will hate you.... FOREVER AND EVER.....
1/11/2006
Is new year again....
As we get older and older, the new year become like something sad.....Another year passed, more things that we haven't do....
May be we are not in the right and suitable career path, may be we failed to do everything accordingly to our plan last year, may be we planned to buy something this year, may be we planned to change a new job this year.....All of this become like just a dream that we are not going to come true...Without a right guidance.
This new year seems like start with not really good things...Who knows what will happen later? I really hope that everything good will follow....A little bit upset for these few weeks...Looking for a right job, right place to stay too...really hope that I have a chance to settle down and take a rest.....
May be we are not in the right and suitable career path, may be we failed to do everything accordingly to our plan last year, may be we planned to buy something this year, may be we planned to change a new job this year.....All of this become like just a dream that we are not going to come true...Without a right guidance.
This new year seems like start with not really good things...Who knows what will happen later? I really hope that everything good will follow....A little bit upset for these few weeks...Looking for a right job, right place to stay too...really hope that I have a chance to settle down and take a rest.....
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