5/30/2006

选你选的,然后迈开脚步,向前走去

人生太漫长,你无法预料,你还要走多久,你还可以走多久;你无法预料,你会遇见谁,你会错过谁。你不知道,明天的这个时候,你会在哪里。你也不知道,你的人生,会在哪一个地方出现一个转角。

但是,在每一个人生的转角,你看不见前方的时候,要从心里相信,在眼前的不远处,手可以摸到的地方,有着你想象不到的幸福。 只有从心里相信的人,看得见无限的可能,看得见不一样的风景,看得见美丽的朦胧。

要记得,眼前所见的,不是你唯一的选择。眼前所见的,不是那唯一的风景。在心中放上勇气,在眼里放上宽阔,选你心里所选的,然后迈开脚,大步大步的向前走去,为你的人生做每一个你从不后悔的决定。

为你的人生,画上一幅美丽的画,美丽的句点。

马来西亚
芯海
著于2006年5月30日

脚步还一样吗?

一起走了那么多年,是的,四年对我们来说是那么多年吧?有些朋友在一起那么多年都觉得好像昨天才认识,而我们确实觉得是在一起很久很久了。

两个人在同一条路上走,却因为步伐不一样,节奏不一样,偶尔望的方向不一样,结果一个人走得太前,一个人却走得太后,慢慢的,一切都不再一样。

当一切都不再一样的时候,我们还会是从前的我们吗?

爱撒娇的女人

二十年来,一个人保护自己的家人,尽全力的挡在前面,不让他们受到一点点的伤害。在外面不论有什么问题都不愿意让他们担心,日子久了,也就习惯不断的武装自己,即使是自己单独一个人的时候,我也不会轻易的让自己有软弱的一面。
一直在身边的,都是可以掏心的朋友。能当我掏心的朋友,其实也很难。 我习惯防备自己,如果我真的觉得自己不太放心和你交朋友,对不起,我想我们还是保持点点头的泛泛之交吧。但是只要你能够打破我的心房,你和我会真得变成好朋友哦。防备心,拒人于千里之外的外表,都是和我当朋友前会面对的问题。
虽然看电影的时候,朋友为我做了令我感动的事,还有一些生活上的事,甚至太生气的时候,都会让我很容易的在熟悉的人面前流下眼泪,可是,我从来都没让我自己在人家面前承认我的软弱。就连和一大半的朋友去爬山,我都可以让一群男运动员变成我的干弟弟。
我太坚强了吗?我不知道,我想一个维持了二十年的习惯,要改掉,是很难吧?我想,认识我的人,都不能接受我变成一个爱撒娇的女生吧。一个在身边小鸟依人,什么事都斯斯文文,很淑女,爱偎在男友又身边,什么都听他的,我不会是这样的人对不对?

5/26/2006

很多男孩子都不知道

其实很多男孩子都不知道,女孩子在冲他们发火后自己转过身却在不断啜泣。其实很多男孩子都不知道,女孩子从来不会真正去生他们的气,因为她是真的喜欢他在乎他。其实很多男孩子都不知道,女孩子只会对自己喜欢的男生唠唠叨叨,也只会对自己喜欢的人耍性子。

你要知道,假若她不喜欢你,她根本不会来在乎你关心你,怕你做错事情。你要知道,假若她不喜欢你,她根本不会对你发火不会冲你撒娇让你哄她,在别人面前她都是淑女。你要知道,假若她不喜欢你,你根本就没有本事让她哭泣,让她即使生气也不会超过2天。而这一切都只是因为她喜欢你,而这一切都因为你还不够在意她不够懂她。

于是,你们时常争吵,你认为她脾气不好,她认为你不够迁就她。于是,你们总是冷战,你以为她不喜欢你,她以为你不在乎她。于是,你们总是莫名其妙的彼此错过,也许擦身而过,本身就是一种悲伤着的无奈与幸福。要知道,凄美依然是美的一种,并且美的绚丽悲凉而沧桑,那是更加的美。

因为她喜欢你,所以她偶尔冲你发火,时常对你撒娇。因为她喜欢你,所以她才会生你的气;而又因为喜欢你,她才不会去生气很久。

你可知道,每个女孩子的心都是水晶做的,晶莹剔透,但是很容易就碰伤摔碎。你可知道,每个女孩子都是不设防的,你那么轻易就闯进她的心,走的时候却只留下伤害。她从来都不知道,这个世界上根本没有可以让她哭的人,因为真正值得她哭的那个根本舍不得让她哭。

在爱情里,总是彼此伤害,彷佛这样才能证明自己爱得激烈爱到轰轰烈烈。可是,爱情里没有孰对孰错,爱情里更加没有你比我多我比你少。你爱她,她爱你,如此就已经足够。不要试图让彼此的伤害,让彼此更加脆弱悲伤。你们彼此相爱,你们需要的是温暖是幸福是甜蜜是快乐,不是伤害。不要用沉默宣战,不要互不相让,更不要什么话都不讲就冷漠离去。

要知道,你离去的时候,你的眼睛起了雾,她的眼角泛着泪光。越是安静战火就越传,这是冷战也是彼此的伤害——无论是怎么的复合,那些伤口曾经存在,抹不去的。请跟她一个拥抱,用你的拥抱去化解她心里的悲伤与眼角的泪水。她喜欢你,她绝对不会拒绝你的拥抱,她只会害怕你的冷漠转身无声安静。

请记住,相爱的人不要轻易宣战,因为冷战带来的伤害,超出你的预计。也请记住,只要你喜欢她,没有什么是你接受不了的,只要你喜欢她,就喜欢她的一切一切。那么她所有的小性子所有的坏脾气所有的臭毛病,在你眼里都是撒娇。也请记住,她喜欢你,她需要的不是你真的转身,她嘴里说着的也不是她的真心话。她只是想你宠她,想你抱她,哪怕,没有道歉

5/16/2006

又是一件倒霉的事

我想认识我的人都知道我的车刚刚遇上了车祸吧?倒霉的是,遇上了一间什么都做不好的车行。那车行就在槟城,一条叫JaLaN pErAk的地方,围篱是蓝色的。店名叫Ch*n Ho*I。

拖车的时候什么都可以,进了车行,什么都要等你叫他们做。槌车的要你告诉他该槌哪里,槌了也不好,这里不平那里不平。喷漆的这里喷不好那里喷不好,喷了还有一个个的洞。保险帮你讨了这个没讨那个。叫我来拿车,结果还要在那里坐一个钟。 那是什么态度?他根本就是在耍我们!!

告诉你,那天你真的遇上了车祸,给点钱,让你的车回到原车厂服务中心,让他们为你效劳。即使出了问题,你也知道可以往那里投诉。别让那些吃饱没事做得拖车老和修车厂气死你。

写这个文章,告诉你们这个故事,只是不想让同样的事再发生在你们的身上。告诉你朋友的朋友吧,传出去吧,让每一人都知道,不要再被骗了。

5/12/2006

Someone like you - sissel

Swear i made up my mind when i saw you that first time
its like you were sent from the sky
the kind of love you hear about
that you just cant do withoutbaby
thats you and i
always believed there was something more
through every empy hour i kept searching for

someone like you who
does everything the way that you do
someone like you, baby no one holds a candle the only someone i want is you

ive treasured this romance and hold you as we dance
our way through love's open doors
ive found my happiness within ur sweet caress then ive ever known before

somethings fate wont let you leave behind
i could turn this world over but i'll never find
someone like you who does everything the way that you do
someone like you, baby no one holds a candle the only someone i want is you
its not like ive given up on life just because ive found this loveive never felt something so right
your love is a gift to my heart

somethings fate wont let you leave behind
i could turn this world over but i'll never find
someone like you who does everything the way that you do
someone like you,baby no one holds a candle the only someone i want is you

5/11/2006

小孩不笨2

看着电视荧幕里的小孩,看着他们的生活, 也看见了自己的过去。曾经何时,我也和他一样,以为自己会没路走,也以为自己会没有未来。和他一样,有个不喜欢自己的老师,不同的是,我的老师没变好。他的老师后来帮了他,我的也帮了我, 但是,是气的我不得不成功。

过去的事也许也该忘记,可是现在的我,确实是由过去的事成就。我的爱恨分明,我的情绪化,我的原则,我奇怪的一切想法,一切一切,都是由过去的事影响。小孩不笨,让我看见了过去,看见了我的影子。

不同的是,我没到那个地步才醒悟,没到那个没得U转的地步才回头。也许我的心里还是在恨,恨那个让我学会恨的人,恨那些看不起我的人,但是我也在感激,感激那些让我看见世界现实的人,感激那些让我化悲愤为图强的人。

小孩不笨2,让我看见很多曾经和我擦身而过的人。我想他们并不知道,也许不想知道,曾近何时,他们在我生命中留下的痕迹。。。。你呢?多年前的何时,你在人家的生命中留下任何痕迹吗?

5/10/2006

Finally, they release him

What a great news!! Finally they release him. I have been worry about this case for so long....and finally they release him from the camp today evening, after i log in 2 complain letter to the Head Quater.

Sometimes, we need not to be afraid, just do whatever we should or else they won't follow.....They are really stubborn and troublesome. If they did it in the right way since 1st stage, i won't choose to put them in the hot pan.
At lease, they learned their lesson and they knew that we will do whatever we said.
I'm so happy. This is the greastest joy i have since this 1 month.

Distatisfaction with the way 'THEY' worked

The stupid workers in the Camp name Kxala Nxrxang really make me feel really frustrated!!!! Why other participants in other camp never face any problem but only participants in this camp face problem???!!!!
Want to bring him out for Good Friday and Easter Day also can't. They said other camp is other camp, my camp is my camp, is different, what is the different?? All of them are joining the same purpose camp!! Unless 'you' are the one who is different!!!
Now want take him out for college, also can't. Need offer letter, ok, then i get the offer letter, fax to them, then they said, must have original. SUCKS man!!!! We are not there, how to give it to you? I fax to you, if you want to confirm, you can just call hte college and confirm with them!!! why want to purposely put us in trouble???!!!
Never Mind, you do it your way, i'll do it my way too!!! I send 2 complain letters to the 'higher level' and said if no action taken, i'll forward it to the media and immediately after i sent the second letter, they told my brother that he can go home immeidately.
Now my mom is on the way to bring him back, i'm not sure whether he really can come out. I'm not sure whether he can get his certificate too!! If anything happen and they try to play around with my mom, i'll make sure that they learn their lesson!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5/05/2006

Life's choices

What would you do? You make the choice! Don't look for a punch line; there isn't one! Read it anyway.

My question to all of you is: Would you have made the same choice? At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?" The audience was stilled by the query. The father continued. "I believe that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that child.

Then he told the following story: Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps. Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not expecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by 6 runs and the game is in the 8th inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the 9th inning."

Shay struggled over to the team's bench put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his Father had a small tear in his eyes and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the 8th inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by 3. In the top of the 9th inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the 9th inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with 2 outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat. At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat.

Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible 'cause Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball. However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher. The game would now be over, but the pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game. Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out of reach of all team mates.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever ran that far but made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball, the smallest guy on their team, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions and he too intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home. All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the way, Shay!" Shay reached third base, the opposing shortstop ran to help him and turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third!" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and those watching were on their feet were screaming, "Shay, run home! Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the "grand slam" and won the game for his team.

That day, said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world. Shay didn't make it to another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his Father so happy and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

AND, NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending messages about life choices, people think twice about sharing. The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces. If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that you're probably sorting out the people on your address list that aren't the "appropriate" ones to receive this type of message. Well, the person who sent you this believes that we all can make a difference. We all have thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the "natural order of things." So many seemingly trivial interactions between 2 people present us with a choice: Do we pass along a little spark of love and humanity? Or do we pass up that opportunity to brighten the day of those with us the least able, and leave the world a little bit colder in the process?

5/03/2006

幸运与不幸运

一早,刷牙,洗脸,走出家门,就看见一个自己不喜欢的人。幸运的,你得和他打招呼。不幸的是,他对你说,你今天会很“幸运”。

一路上,幸运的,有好多和你一样怕迟到的人驾着比你豪华的车子在你身边穿梭,逼得你不得不集中精神,神经紧张的驾着你的车。不幸的事,前面的车紧急刹车,而你刹车不及撞上那辆豪华车。到了公司,幸运的大家都在会议室里开会。不幸的是,当你走进会议室,老板正在谈论最近越来越严重的迟到现象,而他的手指恰巧地落到了你的身上。

好不容易,熬过了会议。回到电脑桌,正游览其中一个网页。幸运的, 我的天,老板什么时候站在我身边?不幸的,老板看见了网页的内容。听了一大篇的奋斗史,又到了午餐时间。幸运的,你在离开座位的时候,电话响起。不幸的是,你的老板也听见了电话声,正望着你。

午餐时间完毕。幸运的,你在午餐后的五分钟急急忙忙的回到座位。不幸的是,你的老板刚刚接到了刚刚那位顾客的投诉电话,正在办公室里等你。下午茶时间,幸运的,你没点到午茶。不幸的是,大家买了下午茶回来,你才知道,今天的下午茶是老板付的钱,大家都在楼下的高级餐厅买了甜点。

熬过了一天,幸运的,你关了电脑。不幸的是,你在按了关闭键后才发现你忘了储存那份明天早上要用的文件。

幸运的,你正在读着我写的文章,不幸的是,你发现这些事情常在你的生活里出现。幸运的,你发现了,你可以改变。不幸的是,你发现你现在超过30岁。

给你写这个文章,愿你有个美好的人生。

Writen by the blog owner

Angel

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題目:正在睡午覺的小貓咪突然醒來,你覺得牠醒來的原因會是什麼?
1.睡飽了自然醒來。
2.做了一個惡夢驚醒。
3.主人撫摸牠。
4.聞到有狗的味道。
5.聞到食物的香味。
解析:
1.選「睡飽了自然醒來」的朋友魅力太強的你,電力太強,想電一個卻電到身邊一百個。電錯人的指數80﹪:這類型的人魅力渾然天成,有很多的優點讓很多人都很欣賞,是魅力的吸鐵機。
2.選「做了一個惡夢驚醒」的朋友怕惹麻煩的你,會控制自己的電力,保持安全距離。電錯人的指數40﹪:這類型的人有自閉的傾向,再加上他很想過簡單的生活,因此會跟任何覺得對他有曖昧關係或喜歡他的人保持一定的距離。
3.選「主人撫摸牠」的朋友常常熱心助人的你,你的熱情會讓同性異性都被你電到。電錯人的指數55﹪:這類型的人心地善良,當朋友有難的時候,有錢會出錢,有力會出力。
4.選「 聞到有狗的味道」的朋友放電高手的你,會鎖定目標,只要一出招,絕對電到對的人,零誤差。電錯人的指數20﹪:這類型的人有獵人的特質,他知道每一個獵物需要什麼。
5.選「聞到食物的香味」的朋友漏電大王的你,常常白目狀況外,連自己在放電都不知道。電錯人的指數99﹪:這類型的人警戒心不夠強,活在童話世界中,很容易包容別人,喜歡別人,很多人會欣賞他,他也很容易相信別人。

Test

1.你喜歡自己的長相? Yes:Q2 No:Q5
2.你每天都會看報紙或書籍? Yes:Q6 No:Q3
3.你每天會換一身衣服穿? Yes:Q11 No:Q7
4.身體一點點不舒服你也會很在意? Yes:Q8 No:Q9
5.你常遲到? Yes:Q6 No:Q4
6.重要的日子的前一天都會睡不著? Yes:Q4 No:Q9
7.被罵後都會吃不下飯? Yes:Q10 No:Q11
8.喝牛奶前會看有效日期? Yes:Q12 No:Q13
9.你會很在意衣褲皺摺? Yes:Q8 No:Q10
10.你有做筆記或記事的習慣? Yes:Q14 No:Q13
11.坐車時你會看旁人的雜誌或報紙? Yes:Q15 No:Q10
12.你每月都會存錢? Yes:A型 No:B型13.你認為未來會更不景氣? Yes:Q12 No:C型
14.你的手錶有秒針? Yes:C型 No:D型
15.你沒什麼耐心聽別人把話說完? Yes:D型 No:Q14

各類型分析
A類型:庸人自擾型你的人生真是黑白的,沒有一點色彩,不論任何時,事情都一定將有狀況。所以從頭到尾都享受不到快樂,例如辦一個活動,事前就擔心這擔心那深怕出錯失?即使順利而成功的完成了,你卻一點喜悅也沒有,因為你是位完美主義者,因此自己仍覺得有很多的不完美而悶悶不樂,真是拿你沒辦法!如果你能凡是都不正面思考的話,光增加一些負的力量,到最後好事情也會變成不好喔!
B類型:晴時多雲偶陣雨型基本上來你是個相當情緒化的人,心情好時說什麼都可以,心情不好時則都不理人,因此可說沒什麼準則的人。在公司中作事情也要看自己心情,譬如今天心情好?尋求你幫忙你都會答應,如果心情不好連上司叫你做你都敢回絕,真叫旁人替你捏一把冷汗!!所以大家都蠻怕你的都要看你心情而行事,但這並非成熟人的行為,多控制一下自己!你稱不上正面思考的人,也稱不上負面思考的人,只能說[很情緒行事]的人。
C類型:樂觀進取型大致上來說你算蠻正面思考的人,遇到事情不會馬上往壞的地方想,會冷靜思考分析一些狀況,且盡量說服自己輕鬆,愉快面對它例如老闆一直加工作給你,你雖然不爽,但你會自我安慰的想[因為老闆信任我,所以才放心交代我去做,絕不會想說老闆認為我太閒所以給我加工作,如此正面思考的你不但能夠比別人成長的快,也比別人過得快樂,相信你的人生也是多采多姿。
D類型:無憂無慮型 與其說你是個正面思考的人,還不如說是個少根筋的樂天主義者,因為你很粗心不容易去接受一些訊息感覺,所以也不容易受影響,當然這樣也有好也有壞,好的方面就是這種人活得比較自己,不好的是由於不會察言觀色,所以容易得罪別人。由於你很樂觀凡事都先做了在說,根本不會想到後果,所以常讓同事在後面幫你擦屁股,當然偶爾也?誤打誤撞讓你一炮而紅,但畢竟這機會並不多。-- 以美好的心,欣賞週遭的事物 以真誠的心,對待每一個人 以負責的心,做好份內的事 以謙虛的心,檢討自己的錯誤 以愉悅的心,分享他人的快樂 以喜捨的心,幫助要幫助的人