Moving on the same pace?

In a relationship, 2 people must move on the same pace. Just like getting married, if only one party feel that it is time for marriage, it won’t work. That is why people saying that marriage is something that will happen only when 2 right people meet at the right time, right place and have the urge to get married at the same time.

I have seen some couples, they were together for so many years and they ended up separated when everyone thought they are getting married soon. Reason: only one party feel like want to get married, the other party wanted to wait longer. Not to waste time, they separated. Suddenly, only after a while, one party come and tells you that he/she are getting married with her/his new partner.

I have seen some couples where they were school mate for years, rumors here and there for years and after too long, none of the friends thinking that they will be together anymore. Suddenly both of them become couple and get married.

Sounds familiar right? These things happen around us everyday. Why?

Both parties moving on the same pace when a relationship started, time passed, some couples realize that their partner slow down, some couples feel that their partner moving too fast, some couples feels that they stopped…….This is the time where both the couple started to reconsider about their relationship.

Some couples take only months to know that both of them moving on by using different speed, some take years, the sad thing is, some takes life long time to realize…..

Are you moving on the same pace? You are faster or you are slower? Will you catch up your the other half? Will you wait for your the other half? Think…………