Reasons to break up

It’s hard to understand relationship now. I see people changing boy friend like changing cloths, one a year. I see people who have been together for years ended up break up and become stranger. I see people who have been giving up everything just to be together ended up become enemy.

Reason giving by those changing boy friends like changing cloths is to give herself/himself more choice. So they never think of to get married when they start each relationship. They just feel that they found the right person at that moment, that’s why they started the relationship. Time passed, they started to see differences and none of them want to change for each other, so break up.

Reason for those together for years and ended up strangers, they thought they found the right person, so they just stick together for years. When come to the point where everyone asks them to get married, they started to think whether they can or they want to spend the rest of their life together with the partner. That’s the time where they suddenly realize, no, they don’t want to spend their life together, so they break up.

Reason for those giving up everything to be together but ended up enemy, they didn’t see anything else when they wanted to be together. They don’t understand why so many people give negative feedback to their relationship; they only see love in each other eyes. Time passed, fairy tales ended, they are back to reality. They realize that there is no fairy tales in this world and he/she is not prince/princess, so they break up.

People can break up for many reasons. I just don’t understand, is there still anyone will start a relationship by planning to married this person? Is there still anyone will start a relationship only after understanding him/her and wanted to spend rest of life together?