Birthday+Mother's day Celebration

My cute cute sister with my mama.........
Look really serious from side................
Spot the difference.....

We celebrate my mom's birthday and Mother's day celebration in Pizza.........

BBQ Party-Part 2

Here come the part 2......These are the handsome who help us to BBQ the wings.
This is the tehr handsome who eat on his own nia.....
These are food that we prepared for that night....Steamboat.....
Of course these are the pretties lor..................

Another cute cute girl joined us.............

BBQ party on 30 Apr

As per my previous blog, we have a BBQ night on 30 April. We are lucky, it is not a raining night :P. Hence, we really enjoy it. Picture always describe better then words. Let’s have a look.

Someone mentioned that a girl is most beautiful when she is preparing food. I think "someone" is right!! We welcome See Marn(very sweet and gentle girl-totally opposite then me :P), Syin Ni (incoming bride :),getting married this coming June),
Josephine (like to laugh a lot) !!
What are the guys doing while the girl preparing? Of course BBQ lor. Anyway, i think the thing they prefer the most is still eating. Don't believe, see below picture :P.

What if..........................?

What will you do if a guy break the glasses in the office and try to cut his own hand because you want to break up with him? What will you do if a guy slap you in the office compound and come back to beg for forgiveness after that? What will you do if a guy keep on disturbing you with calls and you are not interested with him?

What will you do if a guy told you that he is working in sales then go to outstation every week but actually he has the other girl friend outside? What if you realize the guy that you know for so long is actually not the one you know? What if the guy you love the most is not loving you as much as you love him?

What if there are too many what if that you cannot think of happened in your life?

Promise

If you promise but you forgot, if you promise but you miss it, if you promise but you do not take it serious, that means you still break the promise.

Promise only when you can make it. If you cannot make it, do not promise. When you promise, keep it in your heart, take it serious and fulfill it. No matter how small is the promises, no matter how bad is the situation for you to fulfill it, you still have to keep to your promise.

Do not simply promise something to others. When you promise, it become a dream and a hope for other, when you break it, you break the hope and dream of others.

Remember, do not simply promise….

This men sucks!!

My friend told me that actually she don’t really know what her boy friend do outside everyday although they already stay together for more then 5 years. When she asks about his activities, he said: “You are just my girl friend, not my wife, so don’t ask too much”.

You know what I told her? I told her to answer her boy friend: “Ya, I’m just your girl friend, then why are you sleeping next to me every night? Why do I need to wash and iron your cloth for you everyday? Why should I cook for you everyday? Why should I clean the house for you everyday?”

This man is sucks!! Ladies, if you found someone like this around you, kill him!! Ladies, if you are the just like the girl, answer like what I teach you!!

Men, if your girl friend ask, is not because she want to control you, she just care about you, when you tell, is not because you have to tell is because you want to give her sense of security.

Ladies, if you don’t know anything about him, ask, you ask because you care not because you scare. He answers because he loves you, not because he wants to get more from you.

BBQ party on 30 Apr

Hi Guys,

My colleagues and I organized a BBQ party on 30 Apr 2007 (Monday).

Details as below:

Date: 30 April 2007 (Monday)
Time: 6.30pm
Venue: Somewhere near Teluk Kumbar, Penang(will tell you the details after you confirm your attendance)
People: Those who want to have fun and meet more people are welcome

Please drop me a message BY 26 APR, 4PM and I will contact you.

Angel.

Ohana

"Ohana means family, family means no one left behind. "

I can still remember, I watched this movie together with my friends in one of the lecture hall in UUM. Ya, in a lecture hall, not in a cinema (Will tell you what it is all about next time)J .

One of my friends cried when she heard Lilo said this phrase. I don’t understand why she cried at that time even I knew that he father is not staying together with her. After all these years, I started to understand….It is not about the movie, it is about the meaning of the phrase.

In this world, family means a lot, no matter how bad you are, no matter how cruel you are, family is always the best place to go back too.

The Creation Science and the Bang Theory

Do you know how old is our earth? How does this world exist? Do you believe that there is a creator behind everything? Or you believe that the world exist is just after a big bang? When do dinosaurs appear?

There are a lot of theories discussing these issues. Anyway, Creation Science and The Big Bang Theory was the major two theories.

Creation Science is the effort to provide scientific evidence supporting the account of the creation of the universe related in the Bible.

The Big Bang Theory is the dominant scientific theory about the origin of the universe. According to the big bang, the universe was created sometime between 10 billion and 20 billion years ago from a cosmic explosion that hurled matter and in all directions.

Which one do you believe?

No matter which one you believe, actually I found and interesting web site which can provide scientific evidence on there is a creator behind everything.

You might pay a visit to this web site and discover the age of the earth, dinosaurs, astronomy, etc.

http://www.drdino.com/index.php
http://www.drdino.com/downloads.php

This is really a good web site where you can learn all these things by watching the video. May be you can share your opinion about it ya J.

First Bowling

Yesterday was my first time to play bowling (sounds like so outdate but its true…J). It is actually our company outing (can say so lar…). There are only 14 of us anyway…..but I think we enjoyed the game….

I thought I am going to die when I know that we are going for bowling outing because – I never know how to play bowling!! Someone sent a video clip to me which show how embarrassing those new player when they play bowling to scared me some more…L.

Luckily, I’m not that bad too :P! Why I say do? Let’s have a look at the result.

A= Angel, I'm the third person. Seems like i started quite good as I got a strike :P.
I'm still the highest mark in the group :) (Actually is because the other group member do not have the mood to play).
At the end of first game, I can only become the 2nd highest in the group....
Hehe, the second game show how bad I am already :P. I help BJ Bowling to clean up their drain ler, hahaha.

At the end, I can get only this mark ler....Anyway, I think this is still acceptable for the first time bowler... (give me some face lar, don't laugh to loud har....)

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,"It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind. Here's the answer. EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love...

Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happens TO YOU.

Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this.

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love."

Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

Job

It has been so long since my last “words” in my blog. I only upload photos instead of writing any wordJ. This is mainly because I was so busy with my work since past 1 month.

Surprise that I said I was so busy? Haha, ya, I was so busy with my work since past 1 month but not now anymore. After working here for almost 9 months, I feel that I am useful for the first time. As you all know, I am the one who always relax here without facing any issue, with low workload and this make me feel like I am useless here.

Last month, one of my colleagues went for operation and on MC for 6 weeks. I was appointed to back up her while she is away. I come to work happily for the 6 weeks. At lease I got things to do in my work place. Now, she is back…and I am jobless again…..Do not misunderstand, I am happy that she recovered and able to work again but I am sad because I am free again…..

My contract is going to end by this June. I am not sure what will happen next. I talked to my boss before that I do not have much job to do and he promised to do necessary arrangement. Hope that he will do the arrangement if he want to extend me…if not, I am open for job hunter again…..

When I say........

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I'm not shouting
"I'm clean living.'"
I'm whispering
"I was lost,now I'm found and forgiven."

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I don't speak of this with pride.
I'm confessing that I stumbleand need Christ to be my guide.

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I'm not trying to be strong.
I'm professing that I'm weakAnd need His strength to carry on.

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I'm not bragging of success.
I'm admitting I have failed And need God to clean my mess.

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I'm not claiming to be perfect,My flaws are far too visibleBut, God believes I am worth it.

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I still feel the sting of pain.
I have my share of heartaches So I call upon His name.

When I say... "I am a Christian"
I'm not holier than thou,
I'm just a simple sinnerWho received God's good grace, somehow!

Group Photo

This picture looks nice with the view behind us :). Don't know why so ngam both of us use the same pose. I look sweet in this picture, right (Feel vomit)? Give a hand lar, don't be so stingy.
I looks like covering something with my body, I also don't know what am I covering for :)
I should take a picture of where we put the camera. To tell you the truth, actually we don't ask for people's help to take all these photo. We just set the camera where ever we can :).
The camera was on the stare case!! Can you imagine that? Haha, brother Ewe Lee become more and more professional after all :).

Ostrich, Dog and Mouse :)

Some people will simply say something hash and give an excuse by saying that: “I am just being direct without going the bush.” The worst case is, they cannot even prove what they have said. When people challenge them to prove, they hide their head in the sand like an ostrich by saying that: “Anyway, this is not my business, this is your problem you should know better.”

Hey, when you dare to be the whistle blower, you need to bring together with proof. Not simply shout out and leave. When you dare to tell something in a direct way, be prepared that people will reply you and questioned you in a direct way. Do not run away like a dog who is being beaten by the owner (poor doggy, like that also kena :P).

Prove that you are right. If you are brave enough, bring proof, tell in front of the person you want to attack, do not go back door, snapped and ran like a mouse. Be matured, when you blow the whistle, stand there and wait for people to defend, and then shoot back with those proofs that you have already collected. At least I can prove what you have already said before this, haha. So, I am waiting for your proof.

Again, who ate the chili will feel the spice, so you know whether I am talking about you. Oh ya, the title is hash, right? I am just telling the truth directly without going the bush:).

Have a nice day :)

Thank God

Thank God for safe journey everyday.
Thank God for a good parking space everyday.
Thank God for keeping me busy everyday.
Thank God for sending someone to drive slowly in front of me so that I will not speed.
Thank God for helping me to face the obstacle in life everyday.
Thank God for sending me good friends everyday.

Thank God for everything.

Again

Again, I meet with an old lady who acts very well, make me hate old people more.

I do not want to be the last one to know

I do not want to be the last one to know. If you are hiding something from me, no matter how cruel is the truth, please tell me.

If I know it from outsider, if I realize it on my own, that is much crueler then you kill me with a knife.

Please, I do not want to be the last one to know.

A string

I am an eagle with a string on my leg, linked to my family. An eagle was born to fly freely in the sky but was tied up by a string. Sounds pity? I felt that at first. Now, I realized it is the other way round.

Without the string, I might not have the strength to fly; without the string, I might not dare to move. With the string, I know I can go back to my family, no matter how bitter is the world. No matter how far I flied, No matter how tired I am, I can go back to my family, have a rest before I get the strength to move on again. .

You have the string but.... you grab it?

Ways of thinking

First way of thinking:
There is something we don’t have to buy by using money. The air is free, the scenery is free, the sky, the moon, the sun, the grass, the land, all are free. God created all these for us. We don’t have to pay to breath, we don’t have to pay to see all the beautiful scenery, we don’t have to pay to own the sky, we don’t have to pay to see the moonlight, we don’t have to pay to feel the grass, we don’t have to pay to stand on a land.

Second way of thinking:
There is nothing free in this world. The air is not free; we can’t feel the air in England without money. The scenery is not free; we can’t see the scenery in Switzerland without paying the flight tickets. The sky, the moon, the sun is not free; we can’t see the sky in Australia, we can’t see the moon in Paris, we can’t see the sun in Hawaii, if we don’t have money. The grass and the land is not free; we can’t see the grass in New Zealand, we can’t feel the land in Taiwan if we never have enough money.

Which way of thinking you have?

Crazy Women show time

I saw a crazy women there. You see it?

My Show Time

Show time :P

Show time for Francis :P.

Cell Group member

These are our cell group member who joined in the trip. Feel the happiness?

Cameron Trip (Chap Goh Meh)

I never been to Cameron since I was 5 years old. Finally I have a chance to go there this year and I went there twice in 2 weeks :P.

You have 2 Choices

Everyday you have the choice to either enjoy your life or to hate it.

The only thing that is truly yours that no one can control or take from you is your ATTITUDE, so if you can take care of that, anything else in life become more easier.

I always agree with this but it's really hard.

There are things that you can't recover

There are 4 things that you can't recover:

The stone after the throw
The word after it's said
The occasion after the loss
The time after it's gone

I need a lot of time to learn this....................

Thank you

Hi All,

Thanks for reading my blog ya. Happy Chinese New Year again to you all.

Specially thanks to "In Silence", thanks for your encouragement and comment. Your comment make me feel stronger to move on :).

Will on leave again tomorrow. Going to Cameron again. That means I'll dissapear again for 3 days. Will gather 10am at Tesco Penang on Friday, if you are there and see me, then just drop by and say hi ya. Really hope to know you all closer :).

Will take a lot of photo to show you. So, wait for my update after 3 days ya!!