First time as a bride's maid

The night before the wedding, this is on Friday (30-Nov-07). I already set the hair. It is just sround 10pm when I took this photo. This is because I have to be at the bride's house before 8.15am on Saturday (1-Dec-07) morning.

I can't really accept this hair style at 1st. It seems like everyone others like it, so I get use to it. This is the first time i make my hair curly, I think it's ok. What do you think about that?Emm...Francis is the bestman on that day too. My paster told me that she was looking at us, standing on the stage, behind the bride and brideroom, thinking when is our turn, hehe. I looked fat here :(.This is the king and queen of the day. At the night, on the way to the dinner. We was late because we re-do the hair. This is taken before the dinner at Hotel Copthrone. You know what? He is the best friend of me and Francis, he is the one who gave us our 1st furniture in our Penang house, he is the one who bring us to Penang church, he is the one who recommend us to all our friends in Penang and he is the best singer that we ever meet. Burney, keep the promise :P!This is the photo taken after the dinner.
After 2 days...my face looks like this....but I really like the hair do at night, not much change, the hairstylist just realease half of my hair down and make it more curly. These photos taken 2 am in the morning of Sunday (2-Dec-07).
Just feel wasted if I didn't take any of the photo. Photos and blog will be my diary.....
I am happy even though I am tired.
I like this photo the most......

Hope you all like it as well :).

Wish the prince and princess, king and queen will leave happily forever.

First Flight to PJ

My new company - My new life

I started my work finally after a month holiday. It seems like a good start since I get my 1st business trip to PJ on my first day as well.

At lease I got a good experience with my first flight. I fly with MAS instead of Air Asia; I stay in a 4 start hotel in stead of a cheaper hotel. My boss bring me for shopping after working in stead of just sending me back to hotel and rush home.

I have been there for 3 days, back to Penang together with my bosses (hehe, really, bosses). We went out for lunch with all the managers for my 1st lunch in Penang branch. I need to park my car inside the plant in stead of being prohibited to drive in my car (in my previous “A” company). The guard will say thank you after checking your car in stead of being rude.

I have my own office room. I have 2 really good and perfect teams reporting to me. I am the decision maker in stead of a follower now. The managers in plant will smile at you in stead of pulling down the face like a doggy at you. I have my 15% EPF, car allowance, meal allowance, mileage claims, phone allowance, better salary and most important thing is A GOOD BOSS.

Not easy to sit at my current place, but it is worth it for me to work hard for it because I feel appreciated and I want respect my current company. Some one told you big company is always better? No, not really, the most important thing is you need to get into a company which suit you (or may be should said a company that need people like you).

A shark cannot survive in a pond, a gold fish cannot survive in a sea; A bird cannot survive in the water, a fish cannot survive on the land. You cannot say that they are useless, it is just because of their habitat is different. Just like human, just like me.

Interesting Theory . Formula

Human = eat + sleep + work + play
If, Pig = eat + sleep

Then, Human = Pig + work + play
Hence, Human - play = Pig + work
Conclusion : Human who don't play = Pig

Man = eat + sleep + earn money
If, Pig = eat + sleep

Then, Man = Pig+ earn money
Hence, Man - earn money = Pig
Conclusion: Man who don't earn money = pig

Women = eat + sleep + waste money
If, Pig = eat + sleep

Then, Women = pig + waste money
Hence, Women - waste money = pig
Conclusion: Women who don't waste money = pig

Theory:

Man earn money so that women won't become pig,
Women waste money because don't want men to become pig

Hence, MEN + WOMEN = PIGS

A roller coaster week – part 2

Continue from last post, I am not jobless anyway; actually I got the job in the second interview on Wednesday. They offered me the job immediately after my interview, I didn’t tender my resignation immediately because I haven’t sign my offer letter at that time.

If despite the bad side, actually all things are in perfect timing, I got a job 2 days before he “fired” me. I got one month paid leave since he asked me to leave immediately and still paying me the one month salary. So I can enjoy my life for one month before I started to work again. I think someone will say that I should thanks my boss, ya, I will thanks him if he never did all the things before (ya, all YOU did is for our “GOOD” like what you always SAID but not as what we always FEEL).

Most of my friends know where I am going, although I think some still wondering whether I am the one telling truth or he is the one who tells the truth. The only thing I want to say is, use your eye, use your brain, use your heart and you will know who is telling the truth. Hehe, or if you want to say that both of us telling truth, I am fine with it. I just wanted to say, I didn’t feel guilty to him, I just feel guilty to those who really teach me but I never managed to help them. Sorry ya, WY and CH. All the others, we will still meet outside as friends (unless you scared he kill you as well).

A roller coaster week- part one

Some readers might realize that my relationship with my boss (should say ex-boss :P) in AXXLEXX company was not good. I wanted to leave this company long before I renew my second year contract and I have been mumbling about this for almost half a year but I never take any action.

I thought I wanted to give myself and my ex-boss a chance each and every time he when he transfer me to new product. Anyway, things never work out. I am not sure whether it is because of I didn’t “worship” him like others or because the chemistry between us never happened. Everything I did which related to him will have mistake, everything that I did even the same with others, I will still “die” in his hand. Incidents happened along the one year and 4 months which I learned a lot but the more I learned, the more I knew that I am not suitable in that company with the boss named “KyEK” (not real name “P).

Finally I took action to send out my resume to the job market. Luckily, my resume still worth something, I got a lot of calls which wanted to arrange for interview with me. So, last 2 weeks were my interview week. I did wrongly in this case; I went out for interview within office hour without informing him. I don’t have any leave since I already took the leave when my mom was admitted to hospital this year (my leave was pro-rated, which means I earn my leave by my working hour), the interviewer can’t wait till after office hour, so I have no choice but go out during office hour.

Result is, he called me for one on one review last Wednesday. He questioned me on my timeout; he asked me where I went for last one week. Hehe, you know, I never wanted to lie, I dare to answer if you dare to ask, so I told him the truth. Immediately, he said someone told him that I don’t have “heart” to work there anymore (from there I knew, someone back step me, golden finger is somewhere). So he asked me what will happen if I didn’t get the job that I am going for second interview in the afternoon (I took half day leave(the only half day leave that I managed to earn) for that). I am not sure what kind of answer he wanted from me. For me, that question is quite stupid, if I started to go for interview, that means I already decided to go away. If he wanted me to say that I wanted to stay and I like to stay, I tell you, I ‘m sorry, I don’t like to lie. I am not sure whether someone else gave him this answer but I am sure that person is lying! So, I told him I will keep on looking until I got a job. His answer is standard, then don’t waste both you and my time. He asked to give him answer on the next day regarding my second interview.
I think all the clever readers know what happened next. On Friday, he ask me to go for one on one again, I thought he is going to ask me regarding the status, anyway, he didn’t, immediately he ask me to leave the company. So I leave, without any chance to take any of my personal things. He asked the admin to pack for me. This incident shocked a lot of people in my department. I told some of them that “KyEK” will ask me to leave immediately but they don’t believe, they thought he is a good guy although most of us think that he is stupid…I proved that I am right.

Those who don’t know the story before thought I really did something serious that he need to ask me to leave, I tell you, I DIDN’T, the only mistake I did is leaving company for interview without informing him (anyway, trust me, I will die even if I told him earlier). I think the golden fingers will tell him about this blog that I posted up and he will tell them that I am stubborn, too egoistic and no point keeping me because I never listen to people. The other way he will say is no comment on her anymore since she left and he will still believe that he is right. Hehe, I think you are right, but not everyone thinks you are. I might make a mistake and I deserve for all that happened but I know the better way to solve the problem.

Ipoh Trip- Memories

This is the original Ipoh white coffee shop....Nam Heong Coffee shop. We were the last bacth customer on that day. This is the street artist....drawign the view of Ipoh old town.
Can see me and francis?
A trip which make our Ipoh trip perfect........Kellie Castle trip..............


Dear all team mates, ,we might not have the other trip together again but just wanted to say thanks. You all make this trip perfect. We will be apart from each other in different company, different place, different country but this is a beautiful memory which we share together. Hope that my palnning satisfied you, hope this trip is a good memory to you as it to me.

Wish everyone of us health, happy, wealthy and lucky forever in our future.

Ipoh Trip- Another surprise

It was a rainy day when we wanted to visit Kellie Castle. We almost cancelled the trip, luckily we didn't.

We saw someone with camera shooting somethign, we thought it was personal shooting or may be some low cost local movie shooting and definitely we are wrong. This is a team which do reaserch on Kellie Castle and the owner to produce a documentory about it.

We meet a director cum actor of a documentary. The Indian men behind are all the actor in the documentary. This is a story base documentary which show the story of Kellie himself and how this castle look like if completed.
Although we didn't know the name, he explain patiently to us every story he know about Kellie and the castle to us.
Everyone is listening and enjoying the session.

No regret going there for 3 times a year (only me and Francis) even though is a raining day becasue we finally get some reliable information compared to just listening to rumors about the ghost story.

Ipoh Trip- Paparazzi

We got a big sueprise when we were in one of the cave in Ipoh.

I felt like a paparazzi when I took this photo.....Know who is in the photo? Can't see?

Come a little bit closer, can? She is Sandy Lam.....Can't believe it? Don't care, coz at elase 8 of us know this is teh truth..........

Ipoh Trip- Sepcial Version

Guys sometime can be very crazy...See the series.....

We almost start...someone start laughing....

Something funny going on? Leonard can't stop laughing.....

Can still see Leonard tahan his laughing.....

3 cool guys with one guy smelling the leave....something wrong......Let's see what Leonard doing with the leaf.........

Let me tell you, the leaf is GREEN in colour!!!

Really? I don't know.................You didn't believe it......say it again!God create the leaf green in colour, i'm amazed....i love it!
Let's sing a song to celebrate it....(Kok Hao, Francis, Stanley: OOOOOMG)
We look cool?!
Let's be friend! But I don't want......
Nvm lar, cincai also can lar... Best friend...........

wei....so fast finished already? It's my turn......why you run so fast............ I thought you said we are friends?

Ipoh Trip- Funny version

I don't know why this happened, but it happened!

I sighted a guy taking picture of somebody backside :

The worst is, he now focus on the buttock and the other guy WATCHING!!!!!!!

Hehe, anyway, the camera man named Leonard (incoming dady- Syin Ni's husband), "watchman" is Francis aka my boy friend and the poor victim is Kok Hao (Chiun Yen's boy friend). But this is a real photo, I didn't not pre- arrange this to happen and I still don't understand why Leonard took pictue of Kok Hao buttock......mmmm......

Ipoh Trip- Girls version

I should have post this since months ago. Anyway, late is better then nothing. Here come the photos: 3 pretties in front of Kellie Castle (Again?! hehe, ya lar, 3 times in a year nia, not too much mar.)

The only group photo at one of the cave in ipoh (forgot what's the name d, this is the one Kenny Sia saw the tortise making love lar)

All the girls in the trip : Me, Wei Fong, Syin Ni (incoming mummy), Chiun Yen
Same place, same person, different angle.

Can you?

When you see news regarding husband killing wife or wife killing husband, have you ever ask yourself what happened between 2 lovers until it caused life? Have you ever said that they are so stupid because nothing is too big until it caused life? I did until someone ask me this question:

“Do you confirm that you can still control yourself when you know someone your really love betray you?”

Ya, can I? Can I still being calm if I see my husband lying on the bed with my best friend? Can I still think rationally when I see my best friend hurt my family? I will never know until when this incident happen and of course, I hope I will not need to know the answer..

Hehe, so you know you shouldn’t try to do any bad things on me, because I don’t know what will I do and what can I be…………..

nothing to do again

There are so many things that I wanted to write bout but don’t know how to write about. Complain too much until me myself don’t like to write blog anymore.

I’m so free today, in office now, boss not around, I don’t have any product to take care yet at this point of time. Nothing to do, waiting for 5 o’clock. Hehe, I think a lot of people wish to be like this.

Wei, not so good, ok?! You are free because you are not capable enough to handle things, you are free because your boss don’t believe in you, you are free because he is looking for a way to kick you out, ok?! Hehe, anyway, to some extend, I think I don’t really care what he think now. As long as I am still who I am, doing what I want to do :P.

Get away from work, get away from my boss face, get away from responsibility…and everything will be better……………………………………………………………………
…………………………………………………………at lease for a short weekend……
Hahahaha!

Define Handosme

When I say you are handsome, I define handsome as anything with 2 eyes, one nose and 2 ears with good looking.

CSI and Criminal Mind

When I told one of my friends that I like to watch CSI and Criminal Mind, he told me that I like intelligent people.

Ya, he wakes me up. I like peoplewho can play music instrument, I like people who can draw, I like people who is informative, I like people who can lead, I like people who is successful. I always wanted to know successful people, I like people who can write. I always dream to meet Tun Dr Mahathir, I always hope that we can have a seat and I can listen to him talking. I always dream that I can know Liu Yong closer and not just to ask form signature but to talk. This kind of people will always attract my eyes.

I do not know why but I just wanted to know all the successful people, I feel that I can always learn from them even if I can have only 1 hour lunch with them. I really hope that one day, I have a chance to do so- may be with my job……….

Show me the way

After working for 2 years plus, changed 2 jobs, I realize that I cannot separate myself from human. I need to work in a industries which is full of human.

I work as a recruiter in my first job. I feel satisfy when I found the suitable person for the position. I feel happy with the job but I left the company because I want to see the world. I want to see something more prospect. Hence, I joined a multinational company as a planner; the pay is much higher (this is the only reason why I stay until now). The working environment makes me feel like I am a machine. No satisfaction from my job at all. The only time where I can feel satisfaction is the time where I organize some activities for my friends.

My sub-conscious urged me to left. I really feel like want to run out of the company. I think this is the time for me to really think about my future path. I am no longer young and I wasted (cannot say wasted, actually I learned and I realize that I do not suitable in MNC because of this company) 1 year in this company.

God, show me the way!!

I hope that i touch your heart.

I can easily get excited when I can help someone to fulfill their dream or even a small wish. Do not know why, if my friend tell me her/his wish, I have an urgency to make it for her/him. Of course, I am not rich, I am not superman, and I can only do things which are not expensive and not impossible.

When my friends they hope to go some place, if possible, I will arrange a trip where a gang of us can go together. When they said they want to eat something, I will arrange that all of us to go together. When they said they need someone with performance on stage, I will invite all of our friends to perform for them. When they hope to have a party, I will organize a party.

It is simple. I was born with this nature; I hope that every one of my friends will feel lucky to know me. I am not sure whether they feel so, but I am happy when I manage to organize a party or any activities for them. The satisfaction is more then the satisfaction that I have in my daily job.

Deep in my heart, I just hope that one day, even all of us are apart in any places in the earth, when all of us are already old, they will still remember there is someone name Angel who always want to fulfill their wish and dream. I hope that this can touch their heart. I really hope that I did something to touch their heart………

A long Long Weekend....

Last weekend was a long weekend for me. My family came to visit me on 30 Aug. We have a good time until 1st Sep when my mother said that she felt pain near her stomach. I sent her to Penang GH, see general doctor and the doctor recommend us to see specialist on Monday.

I thought everything will be ok then. I brought them to picnic, and even have a seafood dinner at night. Things happened after the seafood dinner. My mom told me that she feel more and more painful now. She found difficulty to breathe now. Immediately, all of us drive back from Penang to SP at 1am. I sent her to emergency and she was admitted to hospital at around 3.30am.

I was so tired. Just imagine, wake up at 7am, go out for dim sum, go for shopping, and then come back for bath. In the afternoon, go out again for picnic until 7pm. Go back to bath and go for seafood dinner plus a short shopping at Tesco. These activities took around 17 hours.

After an hour driving back to SP GH, it’s around 2am in the morning. It took 1 hour before they admit my mother in the ward. By the time we reach the ward, it is already 3.30am in the morning, my mother was still in pain at that time, nurse and doctor ask a lot of things before we can really rest. By the time we can rest, I can only sleep on a chair. It’s hard to sleep; I can only take some nap. Doctors and nurses come again early in the morning at 5.30am. Hence, we didn’t really sleep at all. That means, we already awake for almost 24 hours.

I waited until my sister to take over my place at 8am, and then only I managed to rush home to have a sleep before I go to hospital again at 1.30pm. The first day was the worst. Next few days better since I bring the lazy chair to sleep there at night. It took 4 days before my mother discharged from hospital. I am tired, but this is not my concern…I just hope that these things won’t happen anymore.